Oh it doesn’t annoy me at all, I’m happy to help. But the smiley guy, if he admitted that he liked your friend after he led you on, I would just stay clear of him. I know it’s hard but you can do better! And the guy that you used to have a thing with, obviously you are trying to make each other jealous because you care about each other so I think you should just talk to him and ask him how he feels.

It’s weird because im going through the exact same thing. To start off, just do what makes you happy. Those few people, spend as much time with them as possible. And with your best friend, why don’t you talk to them about why you aren’t close anymore and figure out how you can renew your relationship? With the guy, I know that it really sucks to be led on, which I’m sure he did lead you on, but honestly if he’s that much of a douche to do that then you should feel happy that he did that before you fell to hard because now you’re available for a totally more quality guy. If he can do that he’s obviously not worth your time. I hope this helped, and if you want to go into more detail about your situation I can try and give more direct advice. Good luck with everything!

I see on Tumblr all the time, “I wish I was skinny and beautiful, so I don’t have to be so insecure.” or “I wish I looked like that girl in school that gets all the guys.” But what no one seems to understand is that everyone has insecurities. You could be the skinnest girl with the nicest boobs and you’d still be insecure about something. You’d still find something to hate when you looked in the mirror. You’d still wish you could get that one guy that is interested in someone else. That’s just how society is. So quit wishing to be other people who are probably just as insecure as you are, because that will never happen. Instead, start looking for things about yourself that you like, not ones that you don’t. Because being negative and comparing yourself to other people isn’t getting you anywhere I promise.